Lessons From The Longest-Living Among Us
Authored by Amy Denney via The Epoch Times (emphasis ours),
Sister Pacis Bao spent 31 years longing for revenge against the communists who murdered her family—then made a decision at age 79 that may have added 25 years to her life. The 104-year-old nun turned from hatred to forgiveness, which put her mind and body at ease.
Sister Pacis Bao embodies many traits of a "superager," keeping her days busy with prayer, artwork, and social connections in the convent where she lives. Amy Denney/The Epoch Times
Bao is thriving as part of the fastest-growing demographic worldwide: centenarians—people who live past 100.
Life expectancy is generally on the rise, with one in six people worldwide age 60 and over—a rate expected to double by 2050, according to the World Health Organization. Among older adults, those who reach 80 and whose cognitive and physical abilities exceed typical age-related decline are called “superagers.”
Sue Wright, a 98-year-old Midwestern woman with little in common with Bao, is also thriving as a superager.
The two women are quietly practicing the very insight researchers are racing to understand—what helps humans thrive beyond 100.
Aim for Goldilocks SleepBoth women maintain consistent sleep schedules. Bao goes to sleep by 8 p.m. every night, wakes at 5 a.m., and rests every afternoon—a rhythm that reflects best-practice data and her own needs. Wright follows a similar pattern.
Their routines reflect what researchers call “Goldilocks sleep”—not too much, not too little, and of good quality.
Sleeping less than seven hours a night has been associated with a 14 percent increased risk of all-cause mortality, according to a meta-analysis published in GeroScience.
The biological effects are significant: chronic low-grade inflammation, impaired immune function, hormonal imbalances, increased blood pressure, and reduced clearance of proteins linked to Alzheimer’s disease.
“While this study focused on sleep duration, sleep quality is another critical factor influencing mortality risk,” the authors wrote. They added that poor sleep—marked by frequent wake-ups and restless nights—has been linked to heart problems, memory decline, and other brain disorders.
Maintain a Healthy WeightBao has never been overweight, though she indulges in potstickers and egg rolls on occasion, and enjoys a few bites of ice cream after dinner. Wright, who weighs 119 pounds now, never weighed more than 130 pounds outside of her two pregnancies.
Being overweight or obese is associated with all causes of mortality, even among those who never smoked or had chronic disease, according to a study of nearly 4 million people spanning four continents published in The Lancet. Another study published in JAMA found that people who gained more than 66 pounds between early and middle adulthood had higher rates of heart disease, Type 2 diabetes, and obesity-related cancer.
The authors noted that while people and their doctors often dismiss excess weight gain in midlife, it has serious longevity implications.
A meta-analysis of 15 studies published in Medicine found that weight fluctuations elevate the risk of all-cause mortality, lending credibility to the scale as a way to monitor and maintain a healthy weight.
Flex Your BrainJust as weight can begin causing problems before the golden years, so can issues like memory, attention, and perception.
“Longitudinal studies have shown that midlife is a critical period for the beginning of the pathology of cognitive disorders,” wrote the authors of a review on successful aging published in Acta Biomedica. They noted that frequent use of memory and attention, as well as challenging the brain in other ways, may explain why some older people experience higher cognitive functioning.
Those who enjoy a range of brain-stimulating activities—reading, writing, and playing games—across their lifetimes may prevent the onset and progression of Alzheimer’s disease, a leading cause of death worldwide, according to a study published in JAMA Neurology.
Both Bao and Wright have kept active schedules, even after stopping 9-to-5 work, and keeping busy hands. They read, play games, and help others in need.
They also both surround themselves with a positive social circle—another factor that can protect the brain. A study published in Alzheimer’s Dementia found that those with strong midlife relationships had a lower dementia risk compared to those with poor relationships.
Flex Your Muscles, TooCentenarians don’t need to lift weights, though retaining muscle mass leads to better heart function, mobility, and balance, and prevents Type 2 diabetes.
An article about the blue zones noted that the world’s longest-living people often move because of necessity, fun, and function. They grow gardens, don’t rely on mechanical conveniences, and accumulate thousands of steps each day without a formal plan or tracking.
Wright grew up playing basketball and baseball with her brothers, golfed regularly as an adult, and was even spotted dancing without her walker at the assisted living home where she moved a year ago after a COVID-19 infection left her with leg weakness.
“We used to go dancing all the time—went every weekend,” she said, smiling at the memory.
Fill Your CalendarWright’s dancing came with a lot of socializing—another hallmark of longevity. A robust social life ranked right behind good health when surveyed adults described what successful aging means to them. The findings were reported in The Gerontologist
The adults pointed to having friends and family, feeling supported, not being lonely, participating in social activities, and being involved with younger generations.
While Wright misses her neighborhood friends, she is enjoying regular company and staying active in her assisted living community. “I like everyone here. It’s nice to be around people you can visit with,” she said. “I do like to help others when they need help, too.”
Wright will soon be moving to a new state to be close to her son and other family. Her nieces are already planning a party for her 100th birthday.
Don’t Dwell on Your AgeAging isn’t just an ongoing celebration. Wright has outlived two husbands and all of her friends, and suffered through the loss of a son when he was age 3.
“You think a lot about it and wonder why, but you have to accept losses and go on with life,” she said. “You just have to cope with it and try not to think about it, because we all have to go.”
Accepting aging and dying are important to living a fulfilled life, according to about one-quarter of participants in the successful aging survey. While many said reaching 80 and beyond was a lofty goal, some noted it’s important not to wish to be young again or to view aging as a punishment.
Take It EasyOverthinking aging—or anything, for that matter—increases stress, and stress is linked to numerous diseases. The solution: regularly find a way to relax both emotionally and physically.
Although everyone experiences stress, the world’s longest-lived people have routines to shed that stress, wrote Dan Buettner and Sam Skemp, authors of the blue zones article. “Okinawans take a few moments each day to remember their ancestors; Adventists pray; Ikarians take a nap; and Sardinians do happy hour.”
In addition to praying, Bao draws and paints hummingbirds and flowers. Her hand isn’t as steady as it used to be, but that doesn’t matter. Not only does it improve her mood to make them, but it also delights her to give away her creations.
“Sometimes the people, they need cheer,” she said, adding that she likes to bless the staff at the convent. “They take good care of us, and we are sure grateful.”
Disease Can’t Always Be AvoidedAging trends have spurred interest and research in centenarians—often considered models of aging well because they’ve managed to delay disease. Within the demographic, however, some are long-suffering with disease, while others seem to avoid disease altogether.
Researchers categorize centenarians as:
- Escapers: About 15 percent who show no sign of disease at age 100.
- Survivors: About 42 percent who had disease before reaching age 80.
- Delayers: About 43 percent who had no age-related diseases until reaching age 80 or beyond.
Wright has kidney disease and struggles to drink enough water. She’s lost some weight and said that while she'd like to live to 100, she doesn’t plan to undergo dialysis treatments if her condition advances.
Bao moved from the independent wing of her convent to be near the nurse’s station two years ago—but not because she’s ill. The oldest resident, Bao figured it only made sense, though a convent administrator said she’s the healthiest of the residents.
Despite the rapid increase in centenarians, reaching 100 remains rare. There are about 2.6 per 10,000 people in the United States, up from 2.1 in 2020 and 1.42 in 1980.
“Day by day, Jesus is always the same to me, giving me extra help,” Bao said.
“I say to myself every day when I get up, ‘I’m grateful, and today’s going to be a good day.’”
Tyler Durden Fri, 11/07/2025 - 22:35



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